Then, learn to take risks. The perfect hustle/risk combination is investing. The majority of U.S. women feel averse to discussing financial planning and investments with others, according to a 2015 study by Fidelity, but that doesn't mean they're not interested — three out of four American women would also like to learn more about investing.
And once they take on risk and get into the market, women have been proven to be better investors as they make more considered risks, and have a higher propensity to be patient.
Take risks, but ask questions
So how do you start?
The best way is to take an amount of money that you're comfortable potentially losing, and do it yourself. While there are an awful lot of options if you wish to outsource your investing decisions, these professional services come at varying degrees of cost, with widely varying returns. And regardless of how you invest, the critical thing is that you learn while doing it.
One of the biggest obstacles to investing can be language, which is why it's important to make sure you understand what's going on and why decisions are made, instead of just trusting someone else. Make sure you know enough of the language of investing before handing your precious savings over to someone else. Ask yourself or your investment professional: "How much am I paying in fees and expenses?" "How well has my portfolio performed vs. the market?" And for people giving advice, ask "Are you a fiduciary or a salesperson?"
If they make you feel stupid for asking questions, think twice about using them. No question is dumb. You need to know what an ETF is and what happens when the market goes down. Once you know what some of the key investment terms mean, you'll be empowered to ask tougher questions.
Plan for the life you want
Being an active investor will help you look at life differently. Frame your goals as funding options for your life. What do you want to do in the future? Do you want to go to back to school? Buy a second property? Take extended maternity? Retire early and try to become a writer?
Every time you see an ad that asks, "How much do you need to retire?" respond, "No one knows!"
Life is not a straight line, and expecting people to know their retirement "number" is an exercise in guilt.
If you're smart enough to amass a pile, you're smart enough to grow it to fund the sort of life you want, versus squirreling it away until you're old and can sit on a beach. Use those obnoxious retirement ads as a cue to mentally review the progress you've made, and think about your own strategies for your money.
Reprinted with the permission from Quartz. The original version can be found here.
Everyone needs a side hustle
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