After sighing, the president looked to Merkel for an assist: "Do you want to go first on this?"
She said she would do so "gladly." But the fact is, she didn't seem to be enjoying herself any more than Obama was at a press conference that focused over and over again on diplomatic setbacks and allied impotence in the face of Russian aggression in Ukraine and Iranian nuclear developments.
Both leaders lobbied for more time for their diplomatic efforts. "What's the rush?" asked Obama about the Iran talks. "Unless your view is that it's not possible to get a deal with Iran and it shouldn't even be tested? And that I cannot agree with."
Merkel stood with the president on Iran in the face of bipartisan pressure in Congress to impose harsher sanctions on Tehran. She cast negotiations as the only logical course for any politician. "It is incumbent upon us as politicians—we owe it to the people to explore every avenue until somebody gives in," she said. She acknowledged that "all of the options are on the table." And she said, "We are expected to try, time and again."
But Merkel was decidedly pessimistic about both the talks with Russia and the talks with Iran. On Ukraine, she said the diplomacy will continue, but she acknowledged, "we have suffered a lot of setbacks." Looking at upcoming negotiations, she added, "We have no guarantee.... And maybe nothing will come out of it. But then we're called upon again to think about a new possibility.... We never have a guarantee that the policies we adopt will work."
She said she continues to press for more diplomacy because she "would not be able to live with not having made this attempt." But the chancellor quickly added, "So there is anything but an assured success in all of this."
Obama doubled down on her gloomy assessment. "The point Angela made, I think, is right, which is we never have guarantees that any particular course of action works." But he insisted the policies still are working, contending that "just because we have not yet gotten the outcome we want doesn't mean that this pressure is not over time making a difference."
Asked about American surveillance of allied leaders like Merkel, Obama seemed a bit exasperated, stressing 70 years of U.S.-German partnership and, with a touch of pathos, adding, "Occasionally, I would like the German people to give us the benefit of the doubt, given our history, as opposed to assuming the worst."
For both leaders, the press conference became an exercise in hope that things may work out and pessimism that they will—flavored with a nostalgic recollection of easier times. For Obama, it was that reminder of when the world named him a Nobel laureate and a bygone day when Germans trusted America to do the right thing. For Merkel, it was the heady time of the Berlin Wall falling and German reunifying.
"We thought in the '90s maybe that things would turn out somewhat more easily, somewhat less complicated," she said wistfully. "Now we see ourselves confronted with a whole wealth of conflicts, and very complex ones at that."
Both leaders have discovered there are few easy answers.