Growing up in the Italian-American enclave of Lodi, New Jersey, Obeidallah, the son of a Palestinian father and a Sicilian mother, never really felt like an outsider. It wasn't until 9/11 that Obeidallah truly began to feel part of a minority. "I think most Arabs, including myself, thought we were white, that if you were born here, you were 'white.' And then after 9/11, it was clear, you lost your white," he says.
Originally planned as a one-off event, the festival has expanded considerably since its inception in 2003. It's become not just a mainstay in the Arab-American community, but also a magnet for casting directors looking for diverse talent. Close to 50 performers take part in eight shows spanning five nights. They're mostly Arab, but not exclusively Muslim; there are Christians, atheists, and even an Arab Mormon. The beginning of the festival is dedicated to sketch comedy and storytelling; the second half is stand-up.
Of course, laughter can be a wonderful way to bridge the divide between cultures, and a bigot who attended the festival would be hard-pressed to walk away believing that all Arabs are terrorists in the making. But, in truth, most of the people who attend the Arab-American Comedy Festival aren't here in attempt to understand "the other"; they are "the other." For them, the appeal of the festival is that it provides the rare opportunity to see their community portrayed in a humorous light.
"We provide them with something that they don't see in other media," says Ramy Youssef, the festival's mop-topped 20-year-old artistic director. It's a chance to celebrate, in a lovingly self-deprecating manner, the particular traditions of the Arab-American community. "Making fun or Arab culture, holding a mirror up to Arab culture, Arab American culture gets the biggest laughs by far in the show," Obeidallah says. The festival's sketch night begins with a spoof music video about the mental anguish of fasting during Ramadan. "Why do they call it fasting if the day goes so slow?" croons a singer wearing a crudely drawn beard and a towel on his head.
Youssef, who is currently a student at Rutgers, wrote and starred in what was easily the funniest sketch of the festival. Called "Conversations with an Arab Father," the piece speaks to the tension between contemporary American society and traditional Arab -- and in this case, Muslim -- culture. In the sketch, Youssef plays a teenager who tries to con his father into buying him a car by pretending to be gay. ("No one will know that I'm gay. All you have to do is get me a 2011 Volkswagen GTI with power windows, leather seats and sun roof.") But the father outsmarts his wily son by also pretending to be gay -- ripping off his sweater to reveal a bare chest and leather harness. The son, mortified, promises he'll do any chores his father wants, so long as he remains in the closet. Mission accomplished.