by Conor Friederdsorf

One thing that would improve all human relationships is if everyone understood that when someone else says or does or fails to do something, they have their own reasons, shaped by their distinct approach to life. When they do x, it doesn't necessarily mean or imply the same thing as it would if you did x.

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