by Patrick Appel

Suderman shares how he came to support marriage equality:

Is there any more damning moment for an advocate than when he admits that he not only does not know how to justify his own position, but that he believes it is so obvious, so utterly self-evident that it does not need justification at all? For the diehards, intuition is not just enough, it is everything.

But for the majority of the public, that will likely not suffice not forever, anyway. It didn’t for me.

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