Joe My God celebrates. Dan Savage sighs. The US now abuts two very different countries with vastly different cultures, both of whom have allowed gay citizens full equality in marriage. And yet Washington still treats gay couples - even those legally wed in various states - as strangers to one another in every aspect of federal law. And more than 30 states have amended their very constitutions to keep gay citizens in a permanently stigmatized second class status.

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