Noah Millman shares why he changed his mind (at least twice) on marriage equality. It strikes me as a model of bloggy discourse: allowing oneself to change one's mind in public and change it back if necessary, and using the process to understand yourself and the world a little better.

Read the whole intellectually honest thing.

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