Here's part of my Princeton speech that helps explain why I and the Human Rights Campaign and the Democratic Party do not quite get along on the subject of homosexual politics. I also emphasize the vital task of protecting religious freedom - even when, and especially when, it means discrimination against gays within religious institutions. Their conscience matters as much as our conscience, their freedom as much as our freedom. Extra: a defense of ACT-UP!:

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