"When you assume that people would be uncomfortable and quit you are insulting soldiers in the most treacherous way. I can't believe there are people that are saying a soldier would quit. You want to insult a soldier in the worst way? Tell him he's going to quit. Tell him he's a quitter," - LT Dan Choi.

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