Bangor is in and the marriage equality forces won it 54 - 46. We won Kennebunkport too 61 - 39. And yet the totals seem to be reaching a California tipping point against gay equality. With 60 percent in, it's 52 - 48 against gay couples having the same rights as straight ones.

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