A reader writes:

"Since Aaron and I got married, we've both grown more domestic, happier, calmer." Really? From your blog the last several days it's not evident in the least.

Touche. I've been driving him a little nuts too. Went out and slammed a few Jagers last night though. And the gloom lifted.

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