A reader writes:

That clip on the hardships of the gay couple to stay together despite the obstacles posed by the unfair immigration rules made me choke.  My ex-partner and I had been in their shoes. He is a US citizen and I am not.  You can literally hear the visa-expiration clock tick in your head everyday, no matter how hard you try not to listen to it.  It is never normal for you how hard you try, as the life you have built could be snatched away from you when your visa expires.

Mine ends for good (no more waivers possible) in March 2011. Tick, tock.

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