I need to come up with a new term for the straight guys who are now more comfortable with homosexuality than many gay ones. You have any suggestions? Hobros? Paul Rudd - who is as attractive as he is unfunny in my book - sure qualifies:

"We want someone nerdy. Bookish. Probably wears Chuck Taylors. Can make jokes about the fact that he's listening to the new Fleet Foxes CD. Maybe a little fey. I love straight guys that seem gay. I'm a little like that."

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