A reader writes:

While lots of men want a tough angry guy who will fight for them, most women don't. They make them afraid. The steady move of women to Obama (I would argue starting with Oprah) I think has a lot to do with his easy and calm demeanor.  My wife, who is about the calmest person I know, is vastly more enthusiastic about Obama than any other politician in her lifetime.

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