What has the California Supreme Court done?

How can I simultaneously meet the expectations of glamour coming from a society that fetishizes gay style, live up to the childhood memories of my mother's wedding, and operate within the constraints of my budget, schedule, and fiancé's patience?

Ask the straight people. That's what we did. And ignore gay style. It's so 20th century.

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