A plea to both the Obama and McCain campaigns. Actually, of course, the culture war has already abated some in this campaign. Neither candidate is about a cultural war. Yes, I know there are forces behind both that would intensify it. And yes, marriage and abortion matter as core convictions. But reducing abortion and respecting the dignity of gay people can be common goals, even as we fight over how best to achieve both.

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