A reader writes:

More than just a few years ago a buddy and I sat on the porch of our rented house in a famous New England woman's college town sipping beers on a sunny Saturday watching the beautiful coeds walk on by when he turned to me and said, "You know they always look a lot better when you don't know em".

I'm staying out of this.

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