Since many of you asked, yes, the first wedding pic is like Dukakis debating Bush I. I'm standing on the sea-wall where we married and Aaron is next to me. I get a few inches leg-up. In reality, I'm 5'9" and he's closing on 6'5". Hence the the last pic. Climb every mountain ...

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