This line jumped out at me from the New York Times article on the Fatosphere:
The Big Fat Deal blog (bfdblog.com) suggests 10 ways to be a “body positivity activist,” including “Be yourself,” “Understand that a lot of people are hateful morons” and “Don’t be afraid to order the cheesecake.”
All the things one doesn't know about living another person's life . . . I mean, having lived in New York for thirty years, I'm sure that there were any number of mosquito-women staring at my size 10 frame and thinking "That's what would happen to me if I hoovered down ice cream like that." But at least I didn't know it.