What Teens Get About the Internet That Parents Don't

Parents more often than not have a negative view of the role of the Internet in learning, and young people almost always have a positive one.



My 15-year-old daughter has been playing the viola since the fourth grade at school and she's been encouraged by her teachers to keep at it since, among other things, it's marketable for college. She has been contemplating a new instrument, guitar, more in line with her interests and what she listens to with her peers.

This is how the conversation goes about the guitar. Me: "Do you really want to add a new activity?" Her: "We already have a guitar. I can learn on my own and with my friends." Me: "It seems like you should get lessons for the basics." Her: "Mom, that's what the Internet is for." It turns out she's already been practicing with the help of YouTube tutorials.

My daughter's comment is ironic: She knows I've spent the past decade researching how young people are learning differently because of the abundance of knowledge and social connections in today's networked world. But in certain ways, our interactions are also typical of struggles that many families are facing in balancing the competitive pressures of college-readiness, the need for unstructured learning and socializing, and the role of the Internet in all of that.

Today's young people are more stressed than ever. They are facing a dismal job market. Tuition is soaring and student loan debt is at an all-time high. As Phillip Brown, Hugh Lauder, and David Ashton argue in The Global Auction, globalization means greater competition for jobs, but also greater competition for good schools. We can no longer rely on the common wisdom that if kids work hard at school, get good grades, and go to college they will be set for life. A college degree is a requirement for most good jobs, but no longer a guarantee of one.

Consequently, kids feel pressure to not only do well on tests and in school, but in their out-of-school activities as well. Trends indicate that families with the means to do so are investing more and more in enrichment activities to give their kids a leg up. Whether it is the robotics club, violin lessons or athletics, too often it is less about genuine interest and more about padding resumes for college.

It's an arms race in achievement -- and the cost isn't just a financial one. Studies have documented how it used to be the struggling student who was more likely to cheat, but today college bound students are just as likely to do so when it comes to high-stakes tests and exams. Other research shows that wealthy teens suffer higher rates of depression, anxiety, and substance abuse than teens in other socioeconomic groups. The pressure to succeed along narrow paths is exacting a staggering cost on the values and well being of our children.

It is no wonder my daughter wants to mess around with the guitar and the Internet and pursue some interests at a pace that doesn't feel like the relentlessly scheduled pressure of school and structured activities. For her, the Internet has been a lifeline for self-directed learning and connection to peers. In our research, we found that parents more often than not have a negative view of the role of the Internet in learning, but young people almost always have a positive one.

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Mimi Ito is the John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Foundation Chair in Digital Media and Learning at the University of California, Irvine.

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