In the July/August issue, we sought a catchall term for the heap of stuff new parents suddenly find themselves toting around along with their baby. As it turns out, many parents already have their own words for this. For instance, Dennis Fortier, of Laguna Niguel, Calif., wrote, “In my home, we refer to these items as parentphernalia.” In fact, dozens of readers suggested that word. However, a few mentioned it in order to explain why, after it came to mind, they ruled it out. James Olski, of Appleton, Wis., presented the usual objection succinctly. Parentphernalia unfortunately seemed to grasp the concept from the wrong end,” he wrote, adding, “Wouldn’t parentphernalia include vodka?” Readers of a similar turn of mind suggested alternatives such as babyphernalia, pedephernalia, heiraphernalia, pueriphernalia, and paraphernatalia.
Clare Conway, of Arlington, Mass., wrote, “We always called it our baby safari, but on the face of it, this phrase looks like we were hunting babies.” Sean Conboy, of San Francisco, and a new father, suggested postpartum possessions. James Wunsch, of Irondequoit, N.Y., had not only a word but also a procedure to suggest. He wrote, “Bitter experience—many trips back home to fetch a favorite rattle or medicine du jour—prompted us to create, and religiously use, a ‘preflight checklist.’ This process gave us confidence, peace of mind, and greater family harmony. Though our daughters (now two and five) require less and less luggage per trip, we continue to verify our infantory before pulling out of the driveway.”
Some other promising terms were bairnecessities, child splay, impedimenta (with or without a hyphen and a second p after imp), kid and caboodle, and mother load. But Joan A’Hearn, of Saratoga Springs, N.Y., takes top honors for her unique coinage adinfantitems.
Also requested was a word for the tendency to overbuy produce at the farmers’ market—something the woman who asked for the word said her father-in-law did. Irwin Walkenfeld, of Highland Park, N.J., wrote, “So I’m not the only one who cannot restrain himself from overbuying produce. When I go to the market, I gobananas.” Other ideas inspired by specific kinds of produce included appletite, overcornsumption, overdill, overkale, and economy of kale. Mary Jane McKinven, of Washington, D.C., wrote, “The malady should be called berry-berry.”
Rachel Hopkins, of Earlysville, Va., reported, “When our family buys more veggies than necessary, we call it unvegessary.” Tim McBride, of Cary, N.C., warned, “If you buy too much produce, you’ll get caught up in a rot race.” Chris Lazzarino, of Lawrence, Kan., took a similar point of view, writing, “If I bought too much beautiful produce, which surely would spoil before I could eat it, I fear I would suffer from the melancholy of buyers remorsel.”
Refreshingly, Bill Parks, of Covington, Va., has the tendency but lacks any compunctions about it. This condition is called hypervegetating,” he wrote. “It makes us old guys feel both alive and necessary.” A similarly unapologetic coinage earns top honors for Drew and Pamela Elicker, of Port Townsend, Wash.: shoptimism.
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