There's More to Life Than Freezing Your Eggs

Societal changes that help working mothers would be much more effective -- and much less expensive -- than telling women to postpone procreation.
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Suddenly, it seems, everyone is singing the praises of oocyte cryopreservation -- or what most of us call egg freezing -- as the latest cure for a woman's declining fertility. But egg freezing isn't quite the panacea the media would have you believe, and it turns out, all this coverage may be pushing an individualized solution to a deeper systemic problem.

Take Sarah Elizabeth Richard's recent Wall Street Journal article, "Why I Froze My Eggs (And You Should Too)." Never mind that Richards, author of a new book, Motherhood, Rescheduled, hasn't yet used any of the 70 eggs she's banked to try to have a biological baby. She still firmly believes that the greatest gender equalizer for women is the $50,000 she spent on freezing her eggs, for what she calls the psychological relief of having baby insurance -- not career conscious movements like "leaning in," or more family flexible policies like telecommuting and increased maternity leave.

Richards firmly believes that the greatest gender equalizer for women is the $50,000 she spent on freezing her eggs.

"There is no question that the media is hooked on social egg freezing," said Diane Tober, a medical anthropologist and associate director of the Center for Genetics and Society in Berkley. It makes a great story, explained Tober, because they're framing it through a "feminist lens": that egg freezing is going to be "the big game changer" for women who want to have it all and break through their biological barriers.

But the real game changer for professional women, according to Tober, is a level playing field in the workplace -- to become a society that supports flexible work environments and family leave policies, and provides better, quality childcare -- so women actually can have children in their peak fertility years. Unfortunately though, for the media, this lacks the appealing personal narrative of egg freezing. At a friend's baby shower for example (as Richards describes her own emotional journey), it's certainly more comforting to know that your eggs are "safely" frozen away so you can have your baby when you're ready, than to argue that American companies should institute longer maternity leaves and more flexible work arrangements.

"A lot of women, especially affluent women, are perpetuating the myth in the media and telling younger women, if you freeze your eggs, you won't have the pressure of finding the right partner," Tober said. But while they're framing the issue as an extension of choice, the truth is, at $7,000 to $10,000 a round, plus storage fees, only a fraction of adult women would ever have this choice (even if, one day, insurance companies or employers picked up part of the tab).

The rest of the female population, meanwhile, remains stuck in a work place that still doesn't adequately support families and mothers -- a public dialogue that can easily be lost when the media is telling women how easy it can be if we all just freeze our eggs. And then what's going to happen to these women at 45 when they try to continue their career and raise a newborn? Nothing, materially, will have changed since they were 36, unless they're all planning on a corner office with an adjacent nursery, like Marissa Meyer built, to accommodate their babies and nannies.

Calls for a society that supports flexible work environments and family leave policies lack the appealing personal narrative of egg freezing.

At the same time, there's also the potential for an odd, egg freezing dichotomy and wealth divide, between the women who can afford to freeze their eggs to pursue their careers, and the women in their twenties who may soon be able to sell their eggs for medical research. A new bill under consideration in the California legislature and sponsored by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, AB 926, would allow researchers to pay women cash for their eggs, overturning the existing National Academy of Sciences guidelines. Proponents of AB 926 argue that the bill promotes social equality by offering "fair compensation" to women and "treat[ing] them equally to other research subjects."

Tober believes that the media is missing the other half of the egg freezing story -- that women who sell their eggs aren't like traditional subjects in clinical trials. Researchers aren't studying their reactions to experimental drugs or procedures. They're seeking a woman's raw material for scientific work, eggs that (unlike sperm donation) require high doses of hormone shots and a medical procedure that can result in health complications to harvest. So, while you have privileged, professional women electively freezing their eggs on one end of the spectrum, AB 926 creates a real risk -- that low-income women and college students under financial pressure will be enticed to sell their eggs for science -- on the other.

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Jacoba Urist is a contributing journalist for NBC News, where she covers health, education, and gender issues. More

She received her JD and LL.M in taxation from New York University School of Law and a Masters in Public Policy from The Johns Hopkins Institute For Health and Social Policy. She has also written for Time, Newsweek/TheDailyBeast, The Washington Post, Forbes, The Wall Street Journal, and The New York Times.

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