I love having company and I have recently enjoyed several days of hosting friends. I was entertaining houseguests from the West and East Coasts who arrived within hours of each other, everyone a bit exhausted upon arrival, including me. I had hosted a wedding for 150 guests the day before. It is no easy task to get from the West Coast to the Deep South. Audrey and Melodee made the trek all the way from Santa Cruz to celebrate Melodee's birthday. Harriet and Charlie came from New York City. Getting to New Orleans from New York is often easy, especially with JetBlue's direct flight from JFK, but they were tired from taking in all the live music at the New Orleans Jazz Fest as well as many of the great restaurants the Big Easy has to offer. We were all ready to slow down to a Southern pace.
I prepared a dinner of a bit of this and a bit of that ... a few goodies from my freezer and a few dishes I had made extra of when preparing for the wedding: savory grits, beef brisket, crawfish Creole, pork grillades, some cast iron vegetables and eggplant with lump crabmeat, and of course some butter biscuits with orange marmalade butter. All items went directly from the oven to the kitchen counter—so casual that I felt compelled to serve dessert in a more elegant room to make them feel more like guests than family.
This is the time of year that the Louisiana strawberries are peaking, and they are just perfect to top a slice of buttermilk pound cake. To jazz it up I offer a choice of lavender liqueur or limoncello to pour over the cake and berries, which adds another dimension to this simple dessert. Fresh whipped cream would have been nice, but I talked myself out of it, purely out of lack of energy. With whipped cream, the lavender and lemon liqueur on white add a visual element as well. We had great conversation and a relaxed visit and plans for the next day were being planned as we sipped some vintage rum.
I have to say I do not have as many friends who visit Natchez as I had visitors when I lived in San Francisco and New York. When you live in a city as lovely as San Francisco and a city as exciting and electric as New York, every one wants to come visit. I guess now it is friends from those places who visit me here. When I lived in San Francisco I started out touring with all of my visitors and enjoying it as much as them. Then there comes a time that you have seen Lombard Street, Alcatraz, and Sausalito enough and you start writing tour ideas on cocktail napkins at dinner to send your guests on their way. I gradually turned those notes into a written sheet on my Web site. As I started writing down the two- and three-day tour and restaurant schedule I quickly realized that San Francisco, like New York, has so many great restaurants that there was no way I could have my friends or family get the whole culinary experience in a few days time. I began creating "progressive dinners" of appetizers at the bars of several popular restaurants. This was a great way to get a taste of several restaurants in one meal period. I used this same plan in New York and even today in Natchez.