What If: A Refreshingly Generic Rom Com for Millennials

One of the most traditional love stories to be released in the past few years is also one of the deepest.
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When boy-meets-girl met the Millennials, conventional wisdom says, pop culture’s longtime love affair with the generic romantic comedy came to an end. You know the old rom-com formula: A boy and a girl meet serendipitously, their obvious chemistry is prolongedly undermined by either mutual hatred or social barriers, and by the 90-minute-mark we see a happy ending and final, passionate embrace. The frequency with which the same old storyline is used is only ever matched by the frequency with which the same stars are, too.

The sameness might be why so many people have said the rom com is dying. There are still a lot of movies both romantic and funny that don’t quite fit into the genre. They feature bros (Neighbors), lesbians (The Kids Are All Right), parents (Sex Tape), Friends With Benefits, and zombies (Warm Bodies). The diversity of portrayals may be meant to appeal to Millennials, the teens-through-thirties set that makes up much of Hollywood’s target audience.

So why is it that this summer’s romantic comedy for Millennials, What If, is so generic? The film features a bunch of twee Gen Y stock characters—including Daniel Radcliffe as Wallace, a parent’s nightmare (a med-school dropout who lives in his aunt’s attic), and Zoe Kazan as Chantry, a chronic overachiever and artistic animator. But it’s also a story that reboots the Hollywood rom com of old. Wallace and Chantry meet. They have obvious chemistry. Chantry is involved with someone else. They pledge to be friends. And we ask, once more, “Can men and women be just friends?”

The question might seem outdated in an era in which the pair could just start cashing in on their Benefits. But What If proves the traditional formula still resonates, with a slight modification: by portraying that old rom-com standby, true love, as a lifestyle choice.

What If borrows most of its premise from the decidedly optimistic 1989 Rob Reiner genre installment When Harry Met Sally. There’s the Just Friends pact sealed early on in the film, the ensuing romantic walks in the park, the passing of the seasons, and the growing frustration that these two characters should just get on with it already. But Reiner’s film took place in New York City, the magical movie setting where one-time acquaintances run into each other in airports. What If, on the other hand, situates its characters in Toronto, which is where so many mainstream films are actually shot these days. That the movie forgoes its genre’s glamorous hometown in the name of scoring some government subsidies speaks to its fundamental economic realism.

In similarly practical fashion, when the movie begins our characters are in different places both professionally and romantically, but suffering from the same classic Millennial crisis: finding the perfect work-life balance. Wallace, who was headed for domestic bliss as med-school student with a serious girlfriend, dropped it all when he found her cheating on him with a professor. Chantry is just a few steps behind: Her stable life with a successful boyfriend has her turning down promotions at her job so the couple can stay together, but he’s seeking positions abroad. It’s bound to fail.

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Katie Kilkenny is an editorial fellow with The Atlantic​.

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