Nolan: I really didn’t want to hear a song called “I Luh Ya Papi,” but I finally broke down and checked out the first single from Jennifer Lopez’s upcoming tenth album, and you know what, Ashley? The video is hilarious, but it also wastes no time attacking the depictions of women in music videos—which, as you remember, is kind of our favorite topic.
Ashley: Yes! I hope this becomes a genre. “Gender-swapping pop videos with commentary on the objectification of women,” putting it in Netflix terms.
Nolan: Don’t forget the strong female leads!
Ashley: Totally. So this video starts out with our strong female lead, Lopez, in a pitch meeting for her video shoot for “I Luh Ya Papi.” Danny from the record company pitches locale ideas—let’s shoot at the water park! at a carnival! at the zoo!—as Lopez and her two friends reject each idea, laughing harder at every proposal. “If she was a guy, we wouldn’t be having this conversation at all,” one friend interjects.
The other adds, “They would seriously have her up in a mansion with all these half-naked girls, or maybe even in a yacht! You know how they stage you in a yacht scene, champagne, drinking—”
“Why do men always objectify the women, in every single video?” the first friend asks. “Why can't we, for once, objectify the men?”
“The video can start with her on a bed with a bunch of naked guys,” the second friend says, “for no reason!” And they laugh. Then the video begins in earnest with Lopez on a bed, with a bunch of naked guys, for no reason, and it goes on to “objectify men” with aplomb for three and a half minutes.
Nolan: Pointing out that music videos objectify women isn’t exactly breaking news, but it's a topic that's still worth discussing. When music videos glorify treating women like objects, it sends the message that it's similarly okay to ignore a woman's humanity in real life, and these depictions, as we learned with Lily Allen, often have racial stereotypes attached to them.
But the pitch meeting in "I Luh Ya Papi" adds a new angle to the perennial conversation. Objectification is so normalized that it becomes the standard—even when a man isn’t the designated center of attention. They’re producing a Jennifer Lopez music video for a song off her tenth album, not casting some unknown girl to be an extra in another rapper’s video. And yet, Lopez’s options are pretty much the same: a water park (so she can be wet and in a bathing suit), somewhere with puppies (because if she can’t be sexy, she has to be cute), or a zoo… so she can, uh, seem exotic? So she can be tamed? Perhaps Danny just thinks J.Lo looks good in animal prints. (And she does!) But perhaps that’s just all Danny and real-life record executives know.
Ashley: I think it makes a great point about how often women are literally decorations in music videos—props, even, or scenery, rather than characters. There’s that wonderful shot where there are two gorgeous guys sunning themselves on beach chairs on either side of Lopez, and I found myself gawking at them and wondering what they were there for: Like, “Are they… gonna do something? Are they seriously just lying there?”
But then I realized: When I see a girl in a bikini just lounging around in the background of a music video, I barely think twice about it.
Nolan: Don’t forget the car washing. Have we ever seen a music video in which men strip down and get sudsy that wasn’t meant to be a total joke?
Ashley: I thought that was especially smart, given how common that trope is when it’s women.
Nolan: The video manages to point out how surprising and weird it is to see men doing absolutely nothing in barely any clothing without ridiculing men or women themselves, which is actually harder than it sounds. I’ve talked about this before, but one of the most famous “Blurred Lines” parodies from last summer pointed out that reversing the gender roles of music videos is often disservice to everyone involved.
“It's our opinion that most attempts to show female objectification in the media by swapping the genders serve more to ridicule the male body than to highlight the extent to which women get objectified,” wrote Seattle-based burlesque troupe Mod Carousel on their video page. “We made this video specifically to show a spectrum of sexuality as well as present both women and men in a positive light, one where objectifying men is more than alright and where women can be strong and sexy without negative repercussions.”
I do think “I Luh Ya Papi” passes that test, but I suppose that test requires you to be on board with the idea that there can be a healthy, productive way to objectify people.
Ashley: There’s one thing I do think she could have addressed more effectively, if she wanted this to be a full-blown critique of your garden-variety rap video—and maybe she didn’t. Some of the uncomfortable power dynamics in rap videos come from the fact that the men are fully clothed and the women are mostly naked. In this video, the guys are pretty naked, but J. Lo isn’t exactly “fully clothed,” either.