Mindy on The Mindy Project Needs to Stay Unlikable—for the Good of TV

The Fox series' creator and star says her character will be more likable this season, and that's a loss for viewers who want to see more three-dimensional women on sitcoms.
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The Mindy Project's main character, Dr. Mindy Lahiri, is a Princeton-educated OB-GYN, and she's the first South Asian-American character to anchor a network sitcom. She is also kind of a jerk.

She loves to gossip. She doesn't really care about climate change. Her personal spirituality extends little beyond an aesthetic appreciation for the various animal-headed Hindu gods. At times, it seems her wardrobe and love life take precedence over her career in medicine. She lies about having kids to get into trendy bars.

To review: disposed to gossip, blasé about the environment, religious when it's convenient, materialistic, often selfish, occasionally dishonest. She's not that different from many of us, if we're being honest. Yet despite her relatably human, almost Seinfeld-ian personality, viewers didn't warm to Mindy in her first season on the air like they did other female sitcom protagonists like Leslie Knope on Parks and Recreation or Pam Halpert on The Officeor other Seinfeld-style male protagonists, like Michael Bluth on Arrested Development or Louie's eponymous Louie. Ratings fluctuated uneasily all season. The show was renewed for a second season, but there was something about the petite, smart-alecky M.D. that didn't widely appeal.

Thus, when The Mindy Project returns tonight, there will have been a major change to the fledgling series: Mindy Lahiri is going to be "likable."

Office alumna Mindy Kaling, creator and star of the semi-autobiographical Fox sitcom, never intended for that to happen. Early on, she cited Larry David's self-parody on Curb Your Enthusiasm as inspiration for her irritating protagonist. "I just try to make her interesting and nuanced," she told one interviewer shortly after The Mindy Project premiered last September. "And if some people think she's obnoxious sometimes, well, people are sometimes obnoxious, and they can still be heroes."

So when she announced earlier this summer that she wanted to make Mindy less unlikable, it came as an unwelcome surprise to many. Her tone was resigned: "As it turns out, you shouldn't be on TV and be like, 'I want to be unlikable,'" she said. "That's one of the things you learn. Unfortunately, if you're a woman, there are some things that people don't want to see."

This is worrisome. The Mindy Project is distinctive because it intentionally subverts sugary rom-com tropessomething Kaling is an expert at identifying and demolishing. Retreating to the safety of female characterization as defined by Rachel, Monica, and Phoebe is not the way to overturn convention. If Kaling is to stand by her original convictionto pull off the quietly revolutionary feat of playing a funny woman who's just as nuanced and realistically three-dimensional as a Michael Bluth or a Louis C.K.Mindy needs to stay obnoxious.

Why do we need more funny, nuanced women on TV? There's a simple answer, and a complex one. The simple answer: to rectify a double standard. Jerry Seinfeld was allowed to be an obnoxious hero, but Mindy Lahiri is apparently not. (It's worth noting that, according to many, Seinfeld was the first show to lend a central focus to totally unlikable characters. And yes, early critics panned "the show about nothing" as insipid, even the death throes of network television. Today, though, Seinfeld is credited with reviving the American sitcom, setting the tone for a generation of award-winners like Arrested Development30 Rock, and The Office. Flavors of Seinfeld are even detectable in Dunham's equally New York-centric Girls.) 

The complex answer runs deeper: to change, ameliorate, or even eliminate the formula for women on television. Because even in the post-Liz Lemon world, stereotypes that demean the intellect and emotional profundity of women pervade. Sitcoms have an oft-underestimated power to dissolve some of the more ingrained gender conventions: The Mary Tyler Moore Show mainstreamed the concept of working women. Full House introduced America to a single dad filling traditionally maternal roles. Relaxing social and behavioral expectations of women in television—allowing them to occupy a moral milieu, or just be annoying from time to time—might have a similar, real-world impact.

The notion of an annoying hero is hardly revolutionary, especially to those who have followed Kaling's career. As an Emmy-nominated writer and performer on The Office, she had a hand in making hapless regional manager Michael Scott one of the most identifiably unpleasant yet totally beloved antiheroes on American television. The episode when Michael demands sympathy for burning his foot on a George Foreman grill he's irresponsibly placed at his bedside? Kaling wrote that. Deliciously dark, comically self-centered characters are her specialty.

Women in many of this generation's the most popular sitcoms, though, often fall into one of two camps: "good girls" and "bad girls." Good girls like Rachel Green (Friends), Ellen Morgan (Ellen), Leslie Knope (Parks and Recreation), Pam Halpert (The Office), and Jess Day (New Girl) are beloved for their wide-eyed earnestness, which can cultivate a fierce protectiveness in fans that's been known to manifest itself in entire Internet communities devoted to, say, hashing out the legitimacy of Ross and Rachel. Bad girls like Dee Reynolds (It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia), Elaine Benes (Seinfeld), Jenna Maroney (30 Rock), Lindsay Bluth-Fünke (Arrested Development), and even Kaling's Kelly Kapoor (The Office), on the other hand, are intensely, almost cartoonishly unlikable. They're shrill, juvenile, oblivious, and narcissistic, but unapologetically so. And their unbridled confidence can be instrumental in creating delectable schadenfreude.

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Jake Flanagin is a writer for The New York Times's Op-Talk.

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