One other accolade for Joe Haldeman's The Forever War—it was not a book about a boy trapped in a man's body. I feel like I spend too much of my life consuming art and consuming non-artistic writing obsessed with the inability of men to grow up. (Some of it on this site, I admit.) I'm just really, really tired of it.
The Forever War: Art for the Grown and Sexy
It's nice to see a grown-up dude in love with a woman, and pining for her in the way that grown-up dudes do.