Why Losing Wimbledon Hurts So Much

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Ask Andy Murray and Roger Federer: In tennis, the pain of defeat outweighs the thrill of victory.

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Sports can seem like a cruel joke perpetrated on the athletes that entertain us week after week. This is because no athlete can escape the paradox at the heart of sports, which is that the agony of defeat always outweighs the thrill of victory. Listen to a great athlete articulate why he or she sacrifices so much and works so hard to compete at a high level, and more often you'll hear them say that a fear of losing is the chief source of motivation. Rarely if ever will an athlete say that a joy of winning is what keeps them going, and this careful choice of words is critical to understanding the psychology of sports. Winning may bring a certain level of satisfaction, but losing inspires a visceral feeling of pain, like a sharp punch to the gut, that can stay with someone long after competition is complete. And this means that even if an athlete wins half of the time over the course of a career, he or she will end up experiencing more painful emotions than joyful ones.

Tennis, more than any other professional sport, seems to amplify the pain of losing. When a tennis player loses a match, he or she must face the pain all alone. There are no teammates to turn to, no caddy to give an enthusiastic pat on the back as the match slips from one's grasp. A losing tennis player must shake hands, wave to the crowd and sit there alone, contemplating what could have been. There's no easy way to lose a tennis match, especially when the match is the final of a grand slam and the pressures and expectations of the moment raise the stakes even higher.

Roger Federer, who is at the stage in his career where every new accolade bolsters the argument that he is the greatest player to ever pick up a racket, has endured his share of painful losses. We've seen him weep uncontrollably after losing to his greatest rival and walk off the court glumly after getting upset by younger upstarts. But for all the bad losses Federer has endured, there has arguably never been a tennis player who has dished out more heartbreak to his opponents. His record 17 major titles have come at the expense of some very fine players, who were all looking to carve their own little niches in tennis history, and it's hard not to feel a pang of remorse for some of these deserving runners-up.

The latest player to fall victim to the Swiss maestro is Andy Murray, who failed to capitalize on an early one-set lead in Sunday's Wimbledon final and once again ended up serving as a bridesmaid on one of his sport's biggest stages. Federer won 4-6,7-5,6-3,6-4 in a tense match that lasted three hours and 24 minutes and was closer than the final score indicates. As others have already pointed out, Murray is a phenomenal athlete who would already have several major titles to his name had he been a pro in any previous era of professional tennis. Murray has the bad luck of having to compete against Federer, Rafael Nadal, and Novak Djokovic, three all-time great players with 33 major titles between them. Combine the top-notch competition he has to face at every tournament with the weight of the expectations placed upon him by the scores of British tennis fans who desperately want him to become the first British man to win a grand slam event since Fred Perry, and you can understand why he often looks like he's carrying a load of bricks on his shoulders.

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Kevin Craft is a writer based in Arlington, Virginia. His work has appeared in The Washington Post, Salon, and Arlington Magazine.

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