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Ta-Nehisi Coates - Ta-Nehisi Coates is a senior editor for The Atlantic, where he writes about culture, politics, and social issues for TheAtlantic.com and the magazine. He is the author of the memoir The Beautiful Struggle. More

Born in 1975, the product of two beautiful parents. Raised in West Baltimore—not quite The Wire, but sometimes ill all the same. Studied at the Mecca for some years in the mid-’90s. Emerged with a purpose, if not a degree. Slowly migrated up the East Coast with a baby and my beloved, until I reached the shores of Harlem. Wrote some stuff along the way.

Bitch's Brew

By Ta-Nehisi Coates
Aug 4 2009, 4:12 PM ET Comment

I'm late on this, I know, but I'm trying to figure out what the hell Dana Milbank was thinking. With few exceptions, the "bitch joke" is the marker of a male mind confronting its own limits and a formidable woman, at the same time. It is the fuel gauge on the dashboard sagging past "E."

I won't attempt to separate the sexist from the stupid, here. They may well be one in the same. But I imagine it must be grating to be lectured to on what is/isn't sexism from a beneficiary. That said, I will offer this--when a man starts reaching for the bitch jokes, you've probably won.

UPDATE: Let it go boys. A HuffPo commenter nailed it--"The trick is to stop digging."



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